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Creating Routine Healthy Habits
Fred Johnson • February 15, 2024

Have you ever found yourself wanting to start a new healthy habit, but unsure of how to start? Read on for some basic tools to get started! 

Beginning new things can often be daunting. But leaving behind old ways of living and replacing them with new health-conscious ways, can be downright overwhelming and discouraging! Don’t believe me? Try celebrating nearly any of our national holidays, your birthday, or a friend’s recent promotion, without consuming highly processed sugars or carbonated beverages. You’ll find that for many parts of our daily life, healthy choices have been routinely swept away. 


The challenge then becomes for each of us, to routinely reintroduce healthy habits. Below are 3 ideas on introducing change. 


  1. Simplify – Beginning a lifestyle change towards health doesn’t need to be complicated. I often remind my kids, ‘Little habits build big changes.’ The reason I encourage them in this is, I’ve found it to be true! Trying to change everything about your daily routine, all at once, usually leads to a crash.


Here’s what I recommend for initial change: 

a.     Identify 1 or 2 daily behaviors you’d like to improve.
(Ex. Drink daily recommended amount of water).

b.     Write them down clearly and specifically. 

(Ex. Calculate: You weight x .5 = Oz per day)

c.     Plan your day, week, and events to include this change.
(Ex. Use a refillable water bottle that requires a set number of refills to hit that goals that you carry everywhere)


2.     Schedule – One of the more challenging obstacles to change is simply integrating the new into your daily life! One thing that can help with this is to simply get a calendar going and plan our a week or month at a time. There are many ways to do this, but my favorite is to schedule it into my personal phone or exercise app so that reminders are automatically sent to me daily. 

My wife prefers to have a monthly calendar running for the whole family and it works really well for our kids to keep track of upcoming events too. When it comes to creating change, “it’s about what works, not what is perfect.”



3.     Support – Perhaps the most overlooked resource of creating healthy change in our lives is: other’s support. I believe this resource is invaluable and perhaps one of the best things we can do for our own sense of worth. When we ask another to challenge us, encourage us, and include us, we inherently assign value to both them and you.  It takes a healthy relationship with self to ask another for support. So, while it might be hard to begin, I highly encourage asking a friend to support your change effort! =


Remember, with all intentional changes we make, it is about the long-term benefit rather than the short-term feelings.  Include in your planning, a period (maybe 45 days minimum) of uncertainty and internal resistance. You might very well not like change. Your body may resist it. Your mood may be altered. You may wish you had not started doing this new healthy habit. These are all normal and a part of change. James Clear says in Atomic Habits, "In the early and middle stages of any quest, there’s often a valley of disappointment." Be prepared and know there is another side of the valley where you’ll thank yourself for investing in your own health. 


By Fred Johnson December 1, 2024
A Gift Called Grace, a heartfelt reflection on the power of grace in our lives—how it heals, empowers, and transforms us.
By Fred Johnson October 1, 2024
Most of us don’t want to admit it, but the arrival of October signals the official start to the holiday season. Within the next 91 days, there will be everything from spooky lanterns, stuffed turkeys, and sales catalogues arriving in the mail or inbox on the regular. Parties to attend, events to support, and special “once a year” gatherings will all demand our focus and presence. One thing is for certain, If you’re of adult age with even a mild case of responsibility, you will begin to experience what I call, “Holiday Time-Slippage.” Holiday Time-Slippage is the phenomenon wherein the busier and faster our lives become during the holidays, the less time we have to enjoy the holidays. In trying to do it all, we miss all that we do. Ok, I’ll admit I made that up. I even googled it to see if it was a thing. It’s not. Perhaps I just made it a thing, but more likely it is just a fun play on words that ends with this blog post. In either case, I think it’s important to be mindful of the changing of the seasons and what those signals for many. The 16th century produced a carol of Welsh origin we now know as “Deck the Halls.” Within the lyrics, the phrase “‘Tis the season” has become a popular connotation of the holidays in general. Sometimes we use it as a greeting, coping phrase, or in an excusing manner, because after all, “’Tis the season, right?” What we miss in doing so, is the instructive reply the original lyric provides: “… to be jolly.” To experience a cheerful and happy time. In talking with people daily about their lives, I am reminded that not everyone enters this season with the hope of joy and jolly nature. Life can be hard. Holidays can bring triggers, those sharp painful reminders. The holiday seasons can be an extremely isolating time for many. We need the care of each other in these times. We need connection. We need people in our life who will laugh and love, who will share a moment. Maybe you are the person able to provide that for another. Maybe you’re the person who needs that. If I can remind and encourage you today, that in all your seasons upcoming, allow time to simply be jolly.
By Fred Johnson August 1, 2024
Each year, on the first day of August, I remind myself that we are closer to the end of the month than ever before. Each day after, as sweltering humid heat swarms us here in the south, I am reminded that it is now one day closer to the sweet relief of fall temperatures. I’m not sure how I would fair, if by chance, I believed the rampant heat waves of August would never leave. Thankfully, I know seasons come and seasons go. The dreaded drudgery of a hellacious August will soon be gone. The expounding beauty of fall, with leaves changing and cool breezes blowing, will soon arrive. Admittedly, this confession of seasonal distaste is a bit melodramatic. Yet, it serves as a practical example of what is known as “tolerable” stress and an adaptive coping response. Types of stress vary, but the three main categories are “good/positive”, “tolerable”, and “toxic” (1). These categories are not concrete or strictly defined by rules and circumstance necessarily. What is “good” stress for one person, may be “toxic” for another. Throughout our lives, the same stressors can change categories multiple times. Stress levels depend on the degree to which a person perceives control over a stressor or situation and whether they have support systems or resources in place to handle the stressor over their lifespan (2). A flat tire one day may be nothing other than a slight inconvenience. Yet on another day, it may represent all the uncontrollable forces keeping you from arriving on time to an important job interview. An easier way of saying all of this is, when we lose our sense of being (ability to control or make decisions) to a circumstance, we are a susceptible to toxic stress. This is where endurance comes in. I would love to say there is short and simple method to reduce and mitigate all toxic stress in our lives. Unfortunately, this just isn’t so. It doesn’t need to be. Because life, people, the world we live in, are all super complicated. What is important and hopeful: the effects of chronic/toxic stress in the brain and body are responsive to recovery and healing. Let’s talk about endurance as a helper for stress. Endurance, or the ability to withstand hardship or adversity, can be a simple, but effective tool to transition from toxic stress to tolerable stress. Enduring is a mindset of “thriving despite”. Thriving despite the terrible. Living beyond the hurt or difficulty. Healing to be able to accept good again. The difference in the stress types is significant. Remember that our perception plays a major role in which is which. Positive/good stress: normal life challenges such as receiving a promotion, learning a new skill, exercise, or having a child. Here we are allowed goals, enjoy success, and try new things. Choice remains in these. Tolerable stress is usually non-normative. Examples are loss of a loved one, serious illness, or natural disasters. There is a sense of unfairness in this. Often the choice to feel good is removed or feels wrong to do so. Our choice is questioned here. Toxic stress is typical adverse and inappropriate. Over time it can carry heavy physical and psychological consequences. All of life is darkened by this. Seeing good is tinted by what we have been through or currently in. We usually feel there is no choice in these. Abuse, intimate partner violence, Determining in our mind, to endure, withstand, and survive a critically difficult situation can move us from toxic stress to the tolerable type, then eventually the good type of stress. Living to allow good again. If ever there was a sentence that embodied the old phrase, “easier said than done” ---- that one was it. Tragically, it seems toxic stress only makes us good at surviving trauma or the terrible. It limits our ability to enjoy or even to see the beauty in a moment. The healing process allows us to be more human than before toxic stress skewed our view of the world. Talking with a counselor can be a critical part of healing. I hope that perhaps today in reading this, you’ve found a tool to help enduring despite what you’re up against. Notes: 1. https://center.uoregon.edu/StartingStrong/uploads/STARTINGSTRONG2016/HANDOUTS/KEY_49962/TypesofStress.pdf 2. https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2864527/
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